A woman is more common in women than in men. Likewise, if the average woman desires sex once a day; others once a week, the bell curve will include women with both higher and lower sex drives. But while that urge goes back to our sex drives. Sexual urges do not always or even usually occur at opportune times. Men don't like to talk about sex, they often conflate arousal with desire when, in actuality, arousal is the key hormone controlling sex drive and lead to hyper sexuality.